You know how when you were in high school, you had this guy that you were totally in love with, and you dated him for over a year? And you did everything together, and you were so sure you were going to marry him? But it was kind of on-again, off-again? And you didn't go to Homecoming together because it was during an off-again time? And the day after Homecoming he broke up with you, because he thinks he's in love with his Homecoming date? And you cry for weeks, and wear black for months because your are mourning, and sometimes you wish you could die right there on the spot, and other times you just want to kick him where it hurts? And eventually you move past him, find the true love of your life and live happily ever after?
And then, nearly 15 years after high school, your ex-boyfriend's now wife, the one who he broke up with you for, finds you on Facebook?
Yeah, that's how I am feeling right this very second.
Oh, and if you have found my blog by now, Hi Cozette, how are you? (No hurt feelings, by the way. I am totally happy.)
To Sum It Up
- Erin
- I'm taller than my husband when I wear shoes and he is barefoot (and he is 6'1"). I can say the alphabet backwards in 5 seconds. I LOVE cereal - I would eat it for every meal if my family didn't object. I am a francophile (j'adore la langue française). I play the piano, and I love to teach; at one insane point I had 42 students. If I could do whatever I wanted 24 hours a day, I would read and blog. I love my family, and I don't think I show them often enough. I watch entirely too much tv. I eat chocolate every day.
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40 people wanted to leave a comment:
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
If you were a man I would say--wow what a blow to the nugget pouch!! But since you're not--I would say that sucks but your life is probably SO much better than theirs!!
That is too crazy!! I don't know how I would feel about that if it were me in your shoes!!
That would be a bit weird. My guys wife doesn't know me and I know he wouldn't contact me so I don't think I'll have to feel like you are any time soon.
wow. haha. Wait. That sort of thing DID happen to me. And I just met her in person for the first time this last weekend and now we are super good friends. But she isn't with the guy we "shared". Thank heavens..
That is one of my biggest fears. Just kidding... but i do think about it.
Love that her name is Cozette! My favorite girl name is Cosette... It's a Les Miserables thing I guess. :)
Ha-gotta love Facebook! lol.
By the way-I am not a closet ANTM fan. I'm totally out.
(yes. I am Lara's sis-in-law. she rocks. And yes, we shoud get together. I like funny people)
NICE! FB has unearthed some feelings that I suppressed from those CRAZY college years. I had to stop typing peoples names into the search box. . .it was making me nuts.
Did you Friend her? Yeah, I wouldn't.
You just showed up on my google reader.
Clicked over from Blog Stalkers..
I hope this NEVER happens to me. AwKWARD!
Oh, wow! I guess I should stop trying to find my ex boyfriends (and their wives) on facebook, huh?
Ahhhh, totally hysterical--NOT! Cuz I've been there, done that! I'm on Facebook too if you ever want to look ME up! Have a great Thanksgiving, my dear.
Oh...my...found you on Blog Stalkers...I love your blog!
Oh...my...found you on Blog Stalkers...I love your blog!
Bwahahahah!
I didn't start dating till after high school and while I lamented the fact hugely at the time I'm kind a glad now.
Ha ha ha!
I married my high school sweetheart...but still managed to run into an off-again girl he dated in college at a sandwich shop-- my friend who I was with knew from playing softball with her. Akward much?
Saa-WEET!
I can 1 up you... my guy actually sent me a friend request. Yeah. That's even more awkward!
Facebook is totally out of control!☺
Hahahahahaha! One more reason to never join facebook.
Cozette, I know her because how many Cozettes can there be.. Hysterical. I'm so going to stock your facebook now..
hehe
Hi, I found you on blogstalkers and thought I'd stop by!
I'm going through my first break-up after a long relationship sort of thing.
So if my ex's wife ever finds me... I'll hopefully be over it by then! Ha!
Wow. Don't think I would even care about the HS boyfriend's wife finding me.
But the college boyfriend that I was totally engaged to? And the girl that stole him out from under me that I sat next to in choir? Couldn't much handle that, I don't think. :)
hee hee snort snort snort hee haah haa
Oh, Sweetie, how awkward for you.....(snort, heee hee haaahahahaa)
;o)
Blessings!
bahahaha... It would be so tacky if it weren't so funny.
It's funny that how ever long it's been since that situation, you still don't want it to happen. Having your face rubbed in it and all... Did you be-friend her on facebook?
TOTALLY. SNORTING RIGHT NOW.
(We ARE the same person, bytheway.)
That is why facebook sort of scares me. I don't want to be found by those types.
Happy Thanksgiving Erin
That's too funny! You crack me up.
very strange. yes, they don't know they like you until you are taken.
mine visited me up until i had my second child.
my husb would come home and say, did your boyfriend come by today.
three years into HIS marriage, and 6 into mine his wife finally put a stop to it.
awkward.
happy thanksgifting.
Wow... I didn't know that story. HMMMMM.
I can't remember who the guy was is the problem! Where is my MEMORY???
laugh out loud hilarious. :)
I live in fear of some of the same.
The same thing just happened to my good friend. Her ex-fiancee found her and wanted to add her as a friend. She is a happily married lady with 10 beautiful kids. Told her it is simple-deny his request to be his friend:)
He must be telling wonderful stories about you if she came looking. Still a threat after all of these years? Somehow this reminded me of my father-in-law. My husband's parents are divorced and he is remarried, yet every time we would go to his house, he would talk very fondly of my mother-in-law, his ex-wife... while his current wife was just in the next room. Icky.
Ha ha. I'm pretty glad I married my on-again, off-again boyfriend so I don't have to run into this! Although, it's pretty weird sometimes that I know (and am friends with!) a lot of the girls he liked and dated and vice-versa . . . do you ever think that with Christian?
Now that's funny! I too am curious if you friended her.
Ha ha! Facebook makes the world a more interesting place.
I totally remember that. What a wierdo for wanting that she'd want to find you on Facebook. I'm so glad that you didn't end up with him, he was a geek. (No offense.)
That has never happened to me - I can just imagine.
yeah, I'm the one who got ahold of my ex's now-wife and asked her embarrasing questions about him and made her mad. I'm still glad i asked, but don't think we'll be bffs. ever.
I'm such a spaz--I e-mail you a comment just like I said I hate!
But yes . . . FB is awkward at best. People coming out of the woodwork who I didn't know were IN it. Or who even knew me. Why do they care NOW?!
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